Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Backing Up: Maggie's First Month

The fact that my baby is 3 1/2 months and I am just now posting photos from her birth is indicative of just how crazy the last few months have been around here.  I frequently prioritized napping over eating, showering, chores, and everything else.  I ate the diet of a linebacker plus about four peanut butter and jelly sandwiches each day.  I was told for the first time ever that I was "losing my grip on reality" (by my loving husband, trying to convince me that I really needed to take a nap).  While everything that people say about being a new mom is definitely true - it is difficult and tiring and stretching in a way I have never been stretched before - what Travis and I kept coming back to is how much fun we were having.  How amazing it was to care for our daughter.  How much we truly enjoyed being with her and being with each other during those first few weeks.  It was such a great time that I really look back fondly.

Here are some photos from the first month.  I am taking Maggie's picture in our white chair on the 15th of each month, hopefully until she is two (got the idea from Nicole at Making it Lovely).  The official photo from that month is below, plus some other fun shots. 

The "official" one month photo.  Travis refers to this pose as her mad scientist hands.

Resting with her grandmother.

Tummy time.  It's funny, I got this play mat out when she was about two weeks old and starting to be a little more alert.  I don't really know how I thought she was going to react, but she certainly didn't care about it.  She is three months old and barely cares about it now.  Amateur hour.  

Sock monkey.  Don't worry, we didn't let her sleep like this for long.

One of my favorite photos of her.  I cannot get over the double chin.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Thoughts on Poverty

Since having Maggie, I have been catching up on a lot of books I have been meaning to read. One of them is When Helping Hurts, by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert.

One thing we are learning since we have moved to St. John is how difficult it is to discern exactly how to show mercy to our neighbors. There are so many people in need but it is rarely clear how to help. Travis and I struggle with whether our actions, intended to demonstrate the love of God and help lift people out of poverty, are actually demonstrating a God complex and embedding people further into poverty.

This book provides a lot of practical and theological in figuring out how to help rather than hurt.
One of the key concepts from the book that I have found particularly helpful is that poverty is not primarily defined by a lack of material things. In western culture, we define poverty by what people do not have. They don't have money. They don't have food. They don't have shelter. But, in the 1990s the World Bank conducted a survey of over 60,000 poor people from all over the world and asked them to answer the question: "what is poverty?" The results of the study are published in a series of books called Voices of the Poor. The World Bank found that the poor across the world define poverty much differently than North Americans.
Poor people typically talk in terms of shame, inferiority, powerlessness, humiliation, fear, hopelessness, depression, social isolation, and voicelessness. North American audiences tend to emphasize a lack of material things such as food, money, clean water, medicine, housing, etc...this mismatch between many outsiders' perceptions of poverty and the perceptions of poor people themselves can have devastating consequences for poverty-alleviation efforts. (When Helping Hurts, Corbett and Fikkert)
The difference between how North Americans define poverty and how the poor define poverty is staggering to me. And it explains why many of our ministries and services to the poor quite frankly aren't working. We are throwing simple, material-based solutions at people that need not just physical but psychological, sociological, emotional, and spiritual restoration.

I have seen this play out in a trivial, but personal and tangible way since moving to St. John. If you have ever been to St. John, you have probably noticed that there is a lot of trash, debris, and junk everywhere. When folks have broken furniture, appliances, bags of trash, large branches, construction materials, and other junk, they just go ahead and put it at the curb. Even if no one is coming to pick it up. Not only are there large piles of debris on most streets, but the litter problem is simply astounding. Keep Austin Beautiful conducts multiple "Clean Sweeps" each year in which they unleash an army of volunteers into the neighborhood to pick up trash. The neighborhood is squeaky clean for about a week. And then, completely inexplicably, it is filthy again.

Not a day goes by (not an exaggeration by any stretch) that I don't have a capri-sun or a chip bag or a plastic sack blow into my yard. When we first moved here, I would pick the trash up whenever I saw it. Who wants trash in their yard, right? But I have noticed that I don't pick it up anymore. If I see a capri-sun, I will walk right by it. I watch plastic bags blow into other people's yards from my own. Why? Because I feel powerless to change the fact that our neighborhood is junky. No matter what I do, no matter how much trash I pick up, there will always be trash in my yard when I wake up in the morning. And the feeling of powerlessness is so defeating.

The problem with St. John is more complex than can be solved by one or four or twenty clean up events. The problem with St. John is that broken people (including me) live here that feel worthless and voiceless. We need the gospel to tell us that we are valued by God and heard by God. Broken people feel that we have no hope to change our circumstances. We need the gospel to tell us that there is hope in Christ. Broken people feel powerless to make an impact. We need the gospel which is the "power of God for salvation to everyone who believes" (Romans 1:16). Addressing the root issues instead of the surface ones is overwhelming and seemingly impossible. Which is a good thing. It means that in five, ten, even twenty years, when the people of St. John take care of the community and make sure that it is a clean and healthy place for families to live, Keep Austin Beautiful will not receive the glory. All glory be to God.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Backing Up: Welcome Home Maggie

Margaret Ashton Wussow was born on June 15, 2011 at 11:26 am.
She weighed in at 7 lbs, 4 oz and was 19 inches long.




We are blessed.

For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. (Ephesians 4:14-19)


Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Big Girl Outfit and Finally Got a Smile

Maggie has been giving us pretty big smiles for a while now, but it is really hard to catch with the camera, especially the big camera. Especially because she is obsessed with putting her hands in her mouth. Today I got her.



She was also wearing what I refer to as her "big girl outfit." It is hilarious to me to see her wearing shoes and a skirt like a school-aged kid. For all of the moms out there, these are the only baby shoes that have ever remotely stayed on her feet. I am not sure where you can buy them because they were hand-me-downs, but I would highly recommend them. They are like soft slippers with a velcro strap.



Saturday, February 26, 2011

Big Things

Haven't blogged in awhile, so I have a lot of big things to update all three of you on.

1. We moved!

We moved into a house on the east side of Austin next door to our good friends Justin and Sally and their two girls. We are getting settled and thrilled to have more space. Some of you may know our story in how we decided to move into an under-resourced, at-risk neighborhood on the east side, but it wonderful to see God's faithfulness in allowing us to obey this call that we heard several years ago. Much more to come on this topic, but for now, check out our new digs!


This is just an iPhone picture of the outside that we actually had to take for our insurance company, but isn't it cute?! When I get things more together on the inside we will be due for a virtual tour.

2. We went on vacation!

In February we were so blessed to be able to go on a vacation to Paris, Florence, and Rome. I had never been to Europe before, and Travis had only been to the UK, so it was 10 days full of firsts for both of us. It was an amazing trip that will merit its own posts, but here are a few teasers.

The Dome of the Cathedral in Florence.

Columns from the Roman Forum.

Us in front of the Eiffel Tower.

3. We are on our way to being a family of three!

Our baby GIRL is due on June 22, which makes me 23 weeks along. We are completely thrilled and totally freaked out, which I hear is a normal emotional response. So far I have had a somewhat sickly first trimester and a great second trimester. A few belly shots...


Baby W in Florence...

Paris...

...and Donn's Depot (Austin).

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Almost Famous

For our second anniversary, I got Travis this cool print from JHill Design.


She does these city prints for many different cities, and you can customize the text at the bottom based on a specific event. I did ours for our wedding day, but it could be from a vacation or study abroad, engagement, anything special to you.

And much to my surprise, we are apparently the poster children for the customized city print! (See banner.) Thank you, thank you.

Celebrity status aside, Travis loved this gift and it is on our wall, right next to this print from Steven Bush. If you purchase now, the proceeds will go directly to organizations on the ground in Haiti. We are always looking for quality, yet affordable, art to fill our home and offices, and Bush is an AMAZING photographer. Check him out.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

What I've Been Up To

I know that I neglect posting here. I know that. But, for the first time ever, I have a decent excuse for my lack of blogging.

Some of you may remember the "Recipe of the Month" feature (can I really call it a feature?) that I used to regularly include on this site. I recently decided to roll this idea into an entirely new blog, called Eating as I Go. I have already posted some of the things I have been cooking lately and have had a blast doing it so far.

Many thanks to Leslie for designing the new banner.

Take a little look and let me know what you think!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Photos I Owe You

I have promised photos from our Costa Rica trip, and today I will deliver.

The results of muddy four-wheeling.


Us on the rocks.


From left to right, Amanda, Steph, Saona, Michelle, Tiffany, me. Isn't it strange how we are all the same height? No one is wearing heels.


Our amazing house, Casa Azul. Right on the beach. We had it all to ourselves.


Chillaxing.


Canopy tour.


Beach sunsets.



Saturday, October 17, 2009

It's 10:45...

And OU still sucks!

This is a photo of me and Travis at the TX-OU Red River Rivalry game in 2005. It is one of my all-time favorite photos of us. We are headed off to watch the game at Billy's on Burnet.


Ho0k 'em!

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Back in action

We are back from Costa Rica as the more rested and tanned versions of ourselves. Many stories to come, but I just wanted to share a few teaser photos.







Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Life lessons from business school

Being a person with a finance degree whose career is only partially related to finance, I have forgotten my fair share of content from my college classes. But, there are several things in business school that are so fundamental, and so repeated, that it makes it hard to forget. Like, for instance, how to be a complete geek with Microsoft Office applications. And how to make yourself seem more impressive and qualified than you actually are on your resume.

But, seriously, I do remember learning the basics of investment volatility and risk vs. return. Basically, you take a low risk investment, like a municipal bond, and you can't really expect a lot of upside. But, it does minimize downside risk -- you know that your money is pretty safe. However, if you take a high-risk investment, like a start-up company, the upside is huge. But, the downside is, too.

My point is, I have learned that for my life, I am all about minimizing the downside. I am not a risk-taker. And, this doesn't just apply to investments.


That's right, ladies and gentlemen, 4 black bathing suits (well, 3.5 really). When it comes to this sun- and exercise-deprived bod, I am all about minimizing downside risk. To be fair, I did try and force myself to buy the polka-dotted bandeau top bathing suit in a different color, but they didn't have my size.

Why the bathing suits? In 10 short days, we are headed to Costa Rica with some of our favorite people. So excited. Can't wait to tell you all about it.

Saturday, June 6, 2009

I don't take allergy medicine anymore


We were recently in San Francisco visiting our good friends Jeremy and Michelle. It was a delayed birthday celebration for Jeremy. A big group of us piled into a 15-passenger van and drove to Chico, where the Sierra Nevada brewery is. I had a sampler of their 16 different brews (small portions). They have, in addition to their standard pale ale, about 7 or 8 other pale ales and India pale ales. It was pretty fantastic.

Sampler of the brews at the Sierra Nevada Brewery

Since about my third year in Austin, I have suffered pretty badly from seasonal allergies. I perpetually only have use of one nostril. This last cedar season (which was really bad, even for Austin standards), I was taking a cocktail of Claritin, Zyrtec, and Allegra just so I could think straight at work. My doctor said it was okay.

Jeremy also has pretty bad allergies, and all of the above-listed medicines have stopped working for him. He recently started using, probably partly just to blend in with California culture, the NeilMed Sinus Rinse, which is similar to the Neti Pot.

I did not want to try it. I do not like putting things up my nose. I do not use Nasonex. Ever. The thought of spraying something into one nostril, through my sinus cavities, and out the other nostril (or worse, my mouth) was pretty disgusting to me.

But once I saw the glorious green flow of mucus coming Jeremy's nose, I decided to try it. It was invigorating. It felt like the inside of my face was clean. I had no boogers for the rest of the day (which, if you are aware of my proclivity for nose-picking, you know is both a pro and a con). Best of all, I could breathe and had no allergy symptoms.

So I bought one, and I've used it every day since then. And I have no more allergy problems. I can wear my contacts again, because my eyes are not red, itchy, and watery anymore. My skin is no longer itchy. And all of this during oak season, my worst allergy.

If you have allergies, you need to try it. It is weird, but you will get over it. You will be amazed at the junk coming from your nose. You will save a fortune in allergy medicine that doesn't quite fully work. Do it. And tell me about it.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Storytelling

If you know Travis, you know that he has a knack for storytelling. Now, this is partially because he is really dramatic and enthusiastic when he is talking about something. It is also because he "embellishes" the boring parts of stories to make them better. Either way, it is pretty entertaining, so I can't complain.

I took some pictures of storytelling Travis in action at the party this weekend. Sorry about the sepia coloration of the photos - I was playing around and couldn't change mid stream.

Here he is getting the story started. Notice the rapt attention of the audience, right from the get-go.


Here we are getting some hand motions going.



Wait, where did he go?


Oh, there he is. The story just got real good. I bet you wish you knew what he was saying, don't you?


The audience was sure loving it.


Next time you see Travis, ask him about the Alamo story. I'll bet he would love to tell you about it.

Celebrate Texas

On Saturday we celebrated Texas Independence Day. And the Alamo. And friends. I used the opportunity to play around with my camera.

This is our friend Parker, who, conveniently enough, loves to cook for big crowds. Isn't the Texas flag perfect in the background?


The party was a celebration of all things Texas. Texas music, Texas food, and of course, Texas beverages, like this.


And this.


Get a load of those chickens. Man, they were good.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Happy Birthday, Grams!

Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads be beside still waters.
He restores my soul...
Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.


In reality, Grams will probably not see this post, but I wanted to share with you all that she is turning 91 today! Grams is Travis's grandmother (on his dad's side), and as a lot of you probably know, she had a stroke at the end of August. It has been a long and difficult road for her and for our family. But, her progress has been amazing and is truly an answer to prayer.

Grams is living at a wonderful assisted living now that is a 2 minute drive from Travis's parents. Before her stroke, Grams lived alone in her own house, walked a couple of miles each morning, and had a pretty impressive garden, all at age 90. This has definitely not been an easy transition for her. But with the AMAZING care and support of the Wussow family, she gets better and better every day. Travis and I are so blessed to even play a very, very small part in helping and encouraging her in recovery. We look forward to every day that we get to spend with her. We love you Grams!

Friday, January 23, 2009

Obama-mania

Obama boasts a 62% approval rating in Texas. That's pretty good considering 23% of us are convinced he is a Muslim.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

I've been tagged?

I've been tagged by Leah Gibson. I would like to make it known that I will not make a practice of participating in blog games, but I didn't want to dis Leah who made such a great effort to type out that Keller quote.

This is the tag game.

[1] Grab the nearest book.
[2] Open to page 56.
[3] Find the 5th sentence.
[4] Post the text of the next 2-5 sentences and these rules.
[5] Tag 5 peeps!

And this is the funny part. I technically did this while I was at work (the book-opening part), and the closest book was a manual on water rates. Totally boring. And page 56 was a giant table with numbers, no sentences. Joke's on me.

Do I still get to pass the game on? I feel like I have been disqualified by my own nerdiness.

Now that is what I call Christian music


I got Travis the Welcome Wagon album, Welcome to the Welcome Wagon, for Christmas, and it is amazing. It is great if you are like me and you would prefer to listen to music about Jesus but you would also prefer that your music isn't totally lame. The group is a married couple, and he is a presbyterian minister in Brooklyn, NY. And, it is produced by Sufjan Stevens. If you like Sufjan, and you like Jesus, you will like this.

I have posted the lyrics to my favorite song on the album, Up on a Mountain.

Up on a mountain
Our Lord is alone
Without a family, friends, or a home
He cries, "Oo, oo, oo, will you stay with me?"
He cries, "Oh, oh, oh, will you wait with me?"

Up on a mountain
Our Lord is afraid
Carrying all the mistakes we have made
And He knew
It's a long way down
Do you know
It's a long way down?

Up in the heavens
Our Lord prays for you
He sends His spirit to carry us through
So it's true
That you're not alone
Do you know
He came all the way down?
So it's true
That you're not alone
Do you know
He came all the way down?

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Reflections on no TV: Part 2

Another unanticipated casualty from this time of not having a TV - the presidential inauguration. Ordinarily, you would have had to pry me away from my couch with a large crow bar on inauguration day. The same nerd factor that creates the Olympic obsession also creates the need (note: not want) to soak up every second coverage of all historic events. And what a historic event, indeed.

Also note: Travis did not demand a boycott of this television event.

P.S. Not that I was able to watch, but did anyone else think that the Inaguration Neigborhood Ball was a little bit too much like an MTV special? I get what they were trying to accomplish, but it was still strange.

Monday, December 15, 2008

We've Been Elfed

Kind of ironic considering my last post, but here it is.

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