Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Backing Up: Maggie's First Month

The fact that my baby is 3 1/2 months and I am just now posting photos from her birth is indicative of just how crazy the last few months have been around here.  I frequently prioritized napping over eating, showering, chores, and everything else.  I ate the diet of a linebacker plus about four peanut butter and jelly sandwiches each day.  I was told for the first time ever that I was "losing my grip on reality" (by my loving husband, trying to convince me that I really needed to take a nap).  While everything that people say about being a new mom is definitely true - it is difficult and tiring and stretching in a way I have never been stretched before - what Travis and I kept coming back to is how much fun we were having.  How amazing it was to care for our daughter.  How much we truly enjoyed being with her and being with each other during those first few weeks.  It was such a great time that I really look back fondly.

Here are some photos from the first month.  I am taking Maggie's picture in our white chair on the 15th of each month, hopefully until she is two (got the idea from Nicole at Making it Lovely).  The official photo from that month is below, plus some other fun shots. 

The "official" one month photo.  Travis refers to this pose as her mad scientist hands.

Resting with her grandmother.

Tummy time.  It's funny, I got this play mat out when she was about two weeks old and starting to be a little more alert.  I don't really know how I thought she was going to react, but she certainly didn't care about it.  She is three months old and barely cares about it now.  Amateur hour.  

Sock monkey.  Don't worry, we didn't let her sleep like this for long.

One of my favorite photos of her.  I cannot get over the double chin.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Thoughts on Poverty

Since having Maggie, I have been catching up on a lot of books I have been meaning to read. One of them is When Helping Hurts, by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert.

One thing we are learning since we have moved to St. John is how difficult it is to discern exactly how to show mercy to our neighbors. There are so many people in need but it is rarely clear how to help. Travis and I struggle with whether our actions, intended to demonstrate the love of God and help lift people out of poverty, are actually demonstrating a God complex and embedding people further into poverty.

This book provides a lot of practical and theological in figuring out how to help rather than hurt.
One of the key concepts from the book that I have found particularly helpful is that poverty is not primarily defined by a lack of material things. In western culture, we define poverty by what people do not have. They don't have money. They don't have food. They don't have shelter. But, in the 1990s the World Bank conducted a survey of over 60,000 poor people from all over the world and asked them to answer the question: "what is poverty?" The results of the study are published in a series of books called Voices of the Poor. The World Bank found that the poor across the world define poverty much differently than North Americans.
Poor people typically talk in terms of shame, inferiority, powerlessness, humiliation, fear, hopelessness, depression, social isolation, and voicelessness. North American audiences tend to emphasize a lack of material things such as food, money, clean water, medicine, housing, etc...this mismatch between many outsiders' perceptions of poverty and the perceptions of poor people themselves can have devastating consequences for poverty-alleviation efforts. (When Helping Hurts, Corbett and Fikkert)
The difference between how North Americans define poverty and how the poor define poverty is staggering to me. And it explains why many of our ministries and services to the poor quite frankly aren't working. We are throwing simple, material-based solutions at people that need not just physical but psychological, sociological, emotional, and spiritual restoration.

I have seen this play out in a trivial, but personal and tangible way since moving to St. John. If you have ever been to St. John, you have probably noticed that there is a lot of trash, debris, and junk everywhere. When folks have broken furniture, appliances, bags of trash, large branches, construction materials, and other junk, they just go ahead and put it at the curb. Even if no one is coming to pick it up. Not only are there large piles of debris on most streets, but the litter problem is simply astounding. Keep Austin Beautiful conducts multiple "Clean Sweeps" each year in which they unleash an army of volunteers into the neighborhood to pick up trash. The neighborhood is squeaky clean for about a week. And then, completely inexplicably, it is filthy again.

Not a day goes by (not an exaggeration by any stretch) that I don't have a capri-sun or a chip bag or a plastic sack blow into my yard. When we first moved here, I would pick the trash up whenever I saw it. Who wants trash in their yard, right? But I have noticed that I don't pick it up anymore. If I see a capri-sun, I will walk right by it. I watch plastic bags blow into other people's yards from my own. Why? Because I feel powerless to change the fact that our neighborhood is junky. No matter what I do, no matter how much trash I pick up, there will always be trash in my yard when I wake up in the morning. And the feeling of powerlessness is so defeating.

The problem with St. John is more complex than can be solved by one or four or twenty clean up events. The problem with St. John is that broken people (including me) live here that feel worthless and voiceless. We need the gospel to tell us that we are valued by God and heard by God. Broken people feel that we have no hope to change our circumstances. We need the gospel to tell us that there is hope in Christ. Broken people feel powerless to make an impact. We need the gospel which is the "power of God for salvation to everyone who believes" (Romans 1:16). Addressing the root issues instead of the surface ones is overwhelming and seemingly impossible. Which is a good thing. It means that in five, ten, even twenty years, when the people of St. John take care of the community and make sure that it is a clean and healthy place for families to live, Keep Austin Beautiful will not receive the glory. All glory be to God.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Backing Up: Welcome Home Maggie

Margaret Ashton Wussow was born on June 15, 2011 at 11:26 am.
She weighed in at 7 lbs, 4 oz and was 19 inches long.




We are blessed.

For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. (Ephesians 4:14-19)


Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Big Girl Outfit and Finally Got a Smile

Maggie has been giving us pretty big smiles for a while now, but it is really hard to catch with the camera, especially the big camera. Especially because she is obsessed with putting her hands in her mouth. Today I got her.



She was also wearing what I refer to as her "big girl outfit." It is hilarious to me to see her wearing shoes and a skirt like a school-aged kid. For all of the moms out there, these are the only baby shoes that have ever remotely stayed on her feet. I am not sure where you can buy them because they were hand-me-downs, but I would highly recommend them. They are like soft slippers with a velcro strap.



Saturday, February 26, 2011

Big Things

Haven't blogged in awhile, so I have a lot of big things to update all three of you on.

1. We moved!

We moved into a house on the east side of Austin next door to our good friends Justin and Sally and their two girls. We are getting settled and thrilled to have more space. Some of you may know our story in how we decided to move into an under-resourced, at-risk neighborhood on the east side, but it wonderful to see God's faithfulness in allowing us to obey this call that we heard several years ago. Much more to come on this topic, but for now, check out our new digs!


This is just an iPhone picture of the outside that we actually had to take for our insurance company, but isn't it cute?! When I get things more together on the inside we will be due for a virtual tour.

2. We went on vacation!

In February we were so blessed to be able to go on a vacation to Paris, Florence, and Rome. I had never been to Europe before, and Travis had only been to the UK, so it was 10 days full of firsts for both of us. It was an amazing trip that will merit its own posts, but here are a few teasers.

The Dome of the Cathedral in Florence.

Columns from the Roman Forum.

Us in front of the Eiffel Tower.

3. We are on our way to being a family of three!

Our baby GIRL is due on June 22, which makes me 23 weeks along. We are completely thrilled and totally freaked out, which I hear is a normal emotional response. So far I have had a somewhat sickly first trimester and a great second trimester. A few belly shots...


Baby W in Florence...

Paris...

...and Donn's Depot (Austin).

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Almost Famous

For our second anniversary, I got Travis this cool print from JHill Design.


She does these city prints for many different cities, and you can customize the text at the bottom based on a specific event. I did ours for our wedding day, but it could be from a vacation or study abroad, engagement, anything special to you.

And much to my surprise, we are apparently the poster children for the customized city print! (See banner.) Thank you, thank you.

Celebrity status aside, Travis loved this gift and it is on our wall, right next to this print from Steven Bush. If you purchase now, the proceeds will go directly to organizations on the ground in Haiti. We are always looking for quality, yet affordable, art to fill our home and offices, and Bush is an AMAZING photographer. Check him out.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

What I've Been Up To

I know that I neglect posting here. I know that. But, for the first time ever, I have a decent excuse for my lack of blogging.

Some of you may remember the "Recipe of the Month" feature (can I really call it a feature?) that I used to regularly include on this site. I recently decided to roll this idea into an entirely new blog, called Eating as I Go. I have already posted some of the things I have been cooking lately and have had a blast doing it so far.

Many thanks to Leslie for designing the new banner.

Take a little look and let me know what you think!